Sunday, April 17, 2011

Ready to start someting new

I'm sitting here, getting ready for my favorite part of the week (writing to and for you all) and listening to the new Foo Fighters CD.  I'm thinking about how I bought some new stuff today in hopes of changing some stuff about myself, perhaps work on reflecting my age for once.  I can't help but think about how there's an old adage, "a leopard never changes its spots" but at the same time, if we do not evolve, we die.  One cannot remain the same person for their entire life.  But what does that say about people who are stubborn?  Is it that they can't change their positions at all, or is it that they can't change their positions because of their pride?  I do believe in "if it ain't broke, don't fix it" but at the same time, sometimes things are broke and we're just not willing to let them go.  I guess what I'm getting at is I don't understand people that can't embrace any form of change.  I understand ordering the same meal at different restaurants, some people need that consistency, especially those who travel a lot (Billy Crystal's character in "Forget Paris" comes to mind... I wonder how many times did he order veal parmigiana in that movie?).  I, for one, love to order jambalaya every chance I get.  Every once in a while, however, I recognize that jambalaya is not going to be on the menu.  Sometimes I look at that as an opportunity.  It forces me to think about options that I would not have thought about before, which can lead to finding something even more delicious, like the angel hair pasta dish at the hotel I stayed at in Riverside.  It had capers on it, and immediately I fell in love.  Maybe what I'm getting at is I think people should remember to remain open to the possibilities.  For instance, we are all here because of someone taking a chance in life.  Think about it, you would not be here if your parents had not met, it's just that simple.  If one of them had not gotten up the gumption to say, hey, let's get together at some point and do some things (whatever those things were),  the night you were conceived would not have happened.  They took a chance on hanging out with a person they had not previously known, or maybe they knew each other but were afraid to take it to the next level.  But because someone said, okay, this is stupid, let's move forward and change our status quo, you showed up in their lives.  Maybe those exact words weren't used, but you get the gist of what I'm saying.  Perhaps I am just excited because of the change I'm about to experience.  Even five years ago, no one could have told me that I would be walking across a stage in a cap and gown getting a degree in history and religious studies.  Five years ago I was content living in California and working as an account manager for USBank.  But sometimes things happen that force you to change.  Apparently John Lennon said something about "life is what happens while your planning for it" but I prefer to tell people "if you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans."  Either way, you can have an idea of what you think should happen in your life, but it's not what always happens.  I have to laugh, because as I finish this, the song that came on my cousin Lynne's station is "Never Never Land" by Lyfe Jennings.  The song talks about this very subject... I'm not sayin' I'm prophetic, but perhaps I have an undeveloped gift...

So, have you embraced change in your life?  Will you do it now? 

3 comments:

  1. Can I just say I'm proud of you, Ms. Blalock? Your hard work has not gone unnoticed. You have courage that inspires me-little did you probably know. I changed my life drastically by picking up and moving, like you did. Thanks for the positive reinforcement to accomplish my goals. It is so worth it!

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  2. I am so happy to call you friend. Honestly, Katey, I truly believe everything happens for a reason, and I know a big part of the reason I moved back to Milwaukee was to meet you and all of the friends I have made at Kohl's. I'm glad you consider me an inspiration, as you have inspired me to be honest with my friends. Thinking of how you, Marissa, Fale, Terrance and Shelia accepted me and became good friends of mine, well, it gave me the ability to smile through the tough times. I miss you!

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  3. The biggest changes have brought me the best rewards.

    If I hadnt gotten the gumption to actually "talk to " or even "date" a guy, I never would have met my husband.

    If I hadnt sent a random email to the WI Conservatory I would still be living in CA in a dead end job, unappreciated and miserable. Instead I run a department and am respected by my students and colleagues (and the view from my "office" aint too shabby either).

    If I hadnt sent that email, I wouldnt have had the most awesome opportunity to spend 1 1/2 years with hands down the coolest man on the planet - my father, of recent memory.

    If I hadnt decided to run my 1st 1/2 marathon, I wouldnt have made some new friends. If I hadnt gotten the nerve to start running at all, I would have missed out on running in both Miller Park AND Lambeu Field!

    If you are afraid to change your life, or make changes in your life you could miss out on the best part of your life. Changes are inevitable - some we need to accept, some we need to help along.

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